Another waste of my time but I have to address.

It was said to me today that I use my blog and Facebook to tell how sad and unhappy I am and to bad mouth someone and to have a "pity party" for myself which is stupid because clearly I am not using either in that way, and I have no reason to have any "pity party" because I am very happy and stable in my life. I am actually better than I have been in a long time.  

I just want to first point out that the person who said this really has no business reading anything of mine at all.  They are blocked completely from my Facebook page so I guess they are finding another way to see my posts (which is pretty pathetic!), and why they are reading my blog is beyond me (again pretty pathetic!).  Anyway, I went back through at  least the last 50 blog posts I have done and I cannot find anywhere that says I am unhappy and/or sad.  

I would also like to again point out the correct definition of bad mouthing.  To bad mouth someone is to speak of them unfavorably.  I have not done this anywhere.  I have not called anyone names or said anything that was untrue.  I actually have not even said anything that I have 100% proof of is true.  If I make a reference to any situation that is similar to anyone's situation, I always add my disclaimer which states no one should assume that I am speaking of any person or situation that is similar to my own or their own.  In fact, I never use names at all, not even my own children's names.  

I, like many other people, like the little signs and pictures that have funny quotes or sayings on them.  For example, the one below.  It is funny!  It does not mean I am saying it to anyone specific.  It is just funny so I am sharing it!  That is allowed. 

I will not be held accountable if someone takes this as it is directed to them.  It is just a funny sign.  Get over it! 

I think the problem is this, when people do bad things (NO ONE SPECIFICALLY DOING ANY BAD THINGS THAT I AM MENTIONING ON A SOCIAL NETWORK) they try to deflect what they have done back to someone else because that is what they know how to do, and then they become the poor victim in the situation in which they created in the first place.

So to clear up the record for the person and/or people who are using unscrupulous ways to see my Facebook page and who apparently have no life of their own so they have to read my personal blog which is not intended for them, I will make this very clear.  I AM VERY HAPPY.  I ALWAYS PUT MY CHILDREN'S BEST INTEREST FIRST AS I HAVE ALWAYS DONE AND I WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.  I AM NOT HAVING PITY PARTIES ONLINE OR IN REAL LIFE BECAUSE I AM VERY BUSY AND I DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR GAMES.  

And one more thing, I would never flaunt a relationship in front of my children, for example (this is just an example), posting a picture of me and my boyfriend as my Facebook profile picture, because that would just be wrong on so many levels.  If and when I have a boyfriend that is worthy of meeting my children, I will address that with them prior to sending out pathetic pictures on Facebook.  That would be an ultimate disregard for my children which is something I would never do.  I will never have them ask me if that is my boyfriend because you do not find out things like that on Facebook, and I care what they think and how they feel plus the fact that I have way more class than to do something like that!