Monday, July 15, 2013

Fathers and daughters.

I was doing a little research the other day and found some interesting information regarding how daughters pick a husband.  Their choices are directly related to the type of father they have due to unconscious conditioning in grained in them while they were young.  They will try to find a husband based on how they saw their father interacting with their mother and how they conduct themselves in life.  Here are a few examples: if their dad is a liar, they will find a liar, if their dad is a cheater, they will find a cheater, if their dad is abusive, they will seek out an abuser, if their dad abandoned them, they will believe it is okay to be abandoned. They will look for these qualities because they believe this is what they deserve just because it is familiar and comfortable, and they also feel a great need to right a wrong.  In other words, they want to find the same kind of husband so they can make amends from their childhood.   I certainly do now want any of those qualities for my daughter's future husband.  The plus side of this is that if they have a good father figure, they will try to find a husband based on these positive traits so all dads, make sure you are modeling a good example for your daughters, what you do directly impacts their future.

A few articles that I liked and found helpful.

Article Why Do Women Marry Their Dads.
Article Why You Are Likely To Marry Your Parent

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